parenting

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parenting6 min read

Asian Parents Do Everything American Experts Warn Against, and It Works

The research is settled, and it is awkward. Asian-American kids win on effort, not IQ, because their immigrant parents do the opposite of what American experts advise: high expectations, ability treated as built rather than born, and a second classroom at home.

parental rights6 min read

Gentle Parenting Is Wearing Moms Out

The method literally called "gentle" is burning out the moms doing it, and even Dr. Becky is backing away. Here is why warmth was never the problem, why it is the same no-consequences idea you fight at the school board, and the warm-but-firm fix the research has favored for fifty years.